Building a Strong Bond with Tug Toys
Hello, Barrkera Pack!
At Barrkera, we know that play isn’t just about burning energy. It’s about building trust, confidence, and focus with your pup. Tug toys offer an amazing way to connect, teach boundaries, and help your dog learn new, useful skills. Here’s how to use tug play the right way so that playtime builds a stronger relationship every day.
Identify
Notice how your dog reacts when you present a tug toy. Do they rush in with excitement, hesitate, or try to pull the toy away and dash off? The way your dog plays shows their confidence level and comfort with rules. Remember, motion matters: dogs naturally tug side to side, which is where they are strongest and feel most balanced.
Respond
Let’s make tug a positive learning experience.
Training Steps
Play to Their Strengths
Move the toy side to side, supporting your dog’s power and keeping all paws on the ground. Tugging up and down can throw your dog off balance and reduce their confidence.
Imagine standing with both feet firmly planted; it’s much easier to stay strong and stable.
Let Them Win
Allow your dog to win often, especially if they are new to tug games or seem hesitant. This boosts their confidence and keeps them engaged.
Just like with people, always losing a game is discouraging. Celebrate your dog’s efforts with play and praise, not just victory.
Bring the Fun
Use a happy, enthusiastic voice and animated gestures. The more excitement you show, the more your dog will want to play with you.
Don’t be afraid to look silly; your joy is what draws your dog in and makes the game special.
Teach “Drop It”
When your dog has had some wins, practice having them let go of the toy on command.
While they hold the toy, place your hand gently beneath their jaw and toward their neck. Calmly say your chosen word, like “drop it.”
This gentle motion should cause your dog to release. Immediately praise them and hand the toy back so play continues. This teaches your dog that letting go does not end the game or take away their fun.
Over time, your dog will start to respond to your “drop it” cue automatically, without you needing to guide their mouth. Practice in different spots and with different toys to build confidence and consistency.
Understanding the Method
Watching dogs play together shows how natural tug games are. In the wild, dogs shake prey from side to side, using the strongest part of their body. By mimicking this motion and letting your dog “win,” you give them a chance to build confidence and trust in you as a play partner. Teaching “drop it” with a clear, calm touch uses gentle physical guidance, not punishment, and shows your dog that releasing the toy leads to more fun, not less.
Barrkera Pack Action Plan
Play tug using a strong, side-to-side motion to match your dog’s instinct and strength.
Let your dog win the toy, especially in the early stages, to build confidence.
Make playtime exciting and fun with your voice, hands, and positive energy.
Gradually teach “drop it” by using a cue and gentle guidance, always giving the toy back right after your dog releases.
Practice in different places and keep sessions short and upbeat.
If your dog is unsure or you face challenges with control, contact Barrkera for personalized tips.
With patience and positive routines, tug toys become a bridge to stronger trust, better listening, and joyful play for every Barrkera Pack family.
About Barrkera
Barrkera provides personalized, positive dog training for families and pets across North Dallas-Fort Worth, serving Southlake, Keller, Grapevine, Colleyville, Euless, Roanoke, Trophy Club, and neighboring North DFW communities.
All training is hands-on and takes place in your home or favorite public spaces, tailored to your real-world routines and challenges. Whether you want to master obedience in Keller, build reliable leash manners in Grapevine, or nurture your puppy’s confidence in Southlake, Barrkera helps you and your dog succeed in the environments that matter most.
Why Choose Barrkera?
One-on-one, customized training designed for your goals and lifestyle
In-home sessions and public space coaching, no group classes or generic solutions
Proven, positive methods that deliver noticeable results at home and beyond
Consistently recommended by North DFW dog owners
Service Areas:
Southlake, Keller, Grapevine, Colleyville, Euless, Roanoke, Trophy Club, and nearby North DFW areas.
Ready to build a stronger bond with your dog in North DFW?
Contact Barrkera today for a consultation or set up an appointment to ask us about your dog behaviors, and discover why so many families in Southlake, Keller, Grapevine, Colleyville, Euless, Roanoke, and Trophy Club trust our expert in-home dog training.
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